It really is as simple as this or that. Knowing what you want to do or achieve is easier to decide upon when you’re clear about what you don’t want. If you don’t want to feel softness in your tummy AND you’re willing to make small but consistent lifestyle changes then you’ve made an informed decision. On the other hand, if you’ve made up your mind to continue your current lifestyle choices OVER tightening your tummy then you’ve also made a decision. Both are decisions though the latter is more a decision of ommision…meaning that you’ll settle for a soft tummy because you don’t want to make lifestyle changes that are necessary to tighten it up.
You alone are entitled to AND responsible for your decisions even when you’ve asked for guidance or help. Seek out information, weigh the pros and cons then just decide!